NORMAL – Jude Boyer was remembered for “giving her life†to Illinois State University over the course of a 32-year career that reached into many areas of University life and touched dozens, if not hundreds, of students and faculty in the process.
A “Celebration Of Life†memorial service was held in the Ballroom of the Bone Student Center for Boyer on Tuesday, Feb. 26, giving family, friends, and former colleagues a chance to remember Boyer, who died while traveling en route to her Iowa family home on Dec. 23, at age 74.
Dr. Larry Dietz, Vice President of Student Affairs at ISU, remembered Boyer, who often was called “Judy†by some, rather than Jude, “loved athletics and the spirit of ISU.†He added that the idea of such an event like the memorial service would have prompted Boyer to insist the University “not make a fuss over her.â€
“But,†Dietz told the group of 300 of Boyer’s family members and former colleagues, “She was worth making such a fuss.â€
Rev. Jim Pruyne, a Boyer friend, joked that he wanted to know if God could let Jude come back until plans for spring commencement were completed.†Boyer spent a number of years as the Commencement Coordinator for ISU, and her efforts moved the University to progressing from holding just one large graduation ceremony to separate ceremonies for each of the University’s separate Colleges with individual recognition.
“Jude gave her life to ISU,†Pruyne told the gathering. “Jude chose to spend her life working with ISU students and faculty. She gifted her life. I know you all share in thanking her for the gift.†Pruyne then led the gathering in a silent prayer.
ISU President Al Bowman reminded the gathering Boyer served as ISU’s first Affirmative Action officer for women. “She was professional, partial, and never ambiguous. Those were traits that served Jude Boyer well.â€
State Sen. Jason Barickman (R-53rd Dist.), attended ISU and became acquainted with Boyer when he was in Student leadership. He presented Boyer’s family with a proclamation from the State Senate, honoring Boyer for her dedication to ISU and years of service.
“For all of us who were in student leadership, we would cross paths with Jude,†Barickman explained. He added that after he went into politics, Barickman said Boyer was supportive of him because he was a former Redbird. “She was an institution in an institution. She touched so many lives in such a positive way.â€
Dr. Neal Gamsky, Director of Student Affairs Emeritus, told the group that, after he became director of that University department in the 1970’s, he talked Boyer into becoming Associate Director. “That lasted 18 years,†he said, marking that it was a “tough time†for that office, dealing with events such as the Vietnam war, controversies surrounding the annual campus event known as “Rites Of Spring,†and the “Beer Riots†of the mid-1980s.
Gamsky remembered trying three times to talk Boyer out of becoming involved with supervising Commencement. “Neil, I love commencement,†Gamsky said Boyer told him, as he recalled their conversation for the audience. “Please don’t try to talk me out of it.â€
Commencement was where Boyer’s skills shined. She was known to use a commanding loud voice in an effort to get professors and students alike into place for the production, Gamsky recalled.
“At Commencement, new department chairs would hear her and ask, ‘who is that woman?’†Gamsky explained, elaborating that once, a University employee answered, “That’s Jude Boyer, and you’d better do what she says.â€
Doug Lamb, Boyer friend and former director of the University’s Student Counseling Center, recalled that although Boyer had a “no-nonsense and direct approach,†she also demonstrated a sense of loyalty toward those she worked with. Lamb referred to it as Boyer showing “a form of professional graciousness,†on behalf of those people and departments she oversaw, especially when dealing with the people who ran those departments.
Art and Ruth Boyer, Jude Boyer’s brother and sister-in-law, were the last people to address the gathering. “If there was a blessing of her passing, it was all the wonderful things we’ve heard about Jude from those who knew her at ISU,†Art Boyer told the gathering.
When her father developed a passion for race cars, it was at a time when Jude Boyer was the oldest of her siblings to get behind the wheel, Art Boyer said. Thus, a love of auto racing was born. There were pictures of Boyer shown on large screens on either side of the Ballroom stage – at least a couple of which were of a smiling Jude Boyer behind the wheel of a roadster.
“Jude was old enough and although she wasn’t the fastest, she was the only one with a ponytail flying out the back,†Art Boyer recalled. He added his sister’s love of international travel was evident when they went through her house after her death, as he explained finding “five or six passport books – all full.â€
“We all knew not to call her during the Olympics or other sporting events,†Ruth Boyer added, producing chuckles from the crowd.
Boyer was born in Des Moines, and earned a Bachelor of Science degree from Iowa’s Grinnell College, and a Master of Arts from ISU. In the course of her career, Boyer served as Chair of the University’s NCAA Accreditation Committee; Associate Vice President for Student Affairs from 1973-1999, and served as its director from 1999-2000; Was director of ISU Annuitants Association; A longtime booster and fan of ISU athletics and an honorary advisor to the University’s Red Tassel Chapter of Mortar Board.
Between the tributes given by Barickman and Gamsky, members of the ISU Pep Band played the ISU Fight Song, and prior to the ceremony concluding, with all present joining in, played in the background as those assembled finished by singing another Boyer favorite — The Beatles’ classic, “Hey, Jude.â€